Beloved Parris Island Barber Purnell ‘Mr. Tootie’ Whitehead, 51, Dies After Decades of Service to Marines and Community, Leaving Behind a Legacy of Kindness and Mentorship
BEAUFORT, SC — The loss of Purnell Whitehead, affectionately known to all as “Mr. Tootie,” has left a profound void in the hearts of family, friends, and the community of Beaufort. Mr. Whitehead, 51, passed away on April 1, 2025, after a lifetime of service to his craft and community. For over 30 years, he was a familiar and comforting figure at the Marine Corps Recruit Depot (MCRD) Parris Island, where he worked as the manager and barber at the receiving building barbershop.
A Career Built on Compassion and Skill:
Purnell Whitehead, a lifelong Beaufort resident, began his career as a barber with a deep passion for his work. But it wasn’t just about haircuts for Mr. Tootie—it was about the relationships he built with the many people who came through his shop. For recruits at Parris Island, Mr. Tootie’s barbershop was more than just a place to get a trim; it was a source of comfort during an intense and transformative period of their lives.
He was known for his skill with clippers, but it was his kindness, patience, and infectious smile that made him a beloved figure. “It was a place where recruits felt like they could breathe for a moment, where they could talk and feel heard,” said one former Marine, recalling the solace he found in Mr. Tootie’s presence.
A Mentor and Friend:
Beyond his barbering work, Mr. Tootie was a mentor to many, offering a listening ear and words of encouragement. He formed lasting bonds with countless Marines, many of whom returned years later to visit him, remembering the impact he had on their lives. For many, Mr. Tootie was more than a barber—he was a friend, a confidant, and a constant source of positivity.
“He was always so kind. It wasn’t just about the haircut—it was about checking in, asking how you were doing, and offering advice when you needed it,” said another Marine who had been a regular in Mr. Tootie’s chair during his training at Parris Island.
Tributes Pour In:
The news of Mr. Tootie’s death has left his family, colleagues, and many others in deep mourning. Tributes have poured in from across the country, with many remembering his larger-than-life presence and the lasting impact he had on their lives. Social media platforms have been filled with fond memories and stories, with one post stating, “He was the best listener and the best barber. I’ll never forget the kindness he showed me during a difficult time.”
His legacy extends far beyond the walls of his barbershop. His devotion to his community, his profession, and to everyone he encountered will continue to be felt for years to come.
Memorial Services:
The family of Purnell “Mr. Tootie” Whitehead has announced that a memorial service will be held to honor his life and legacy. As of now, specific details about the service are still being finalized, and updates will be shared with the community as they become available. In the meantime, the family has expressed their gratitude for the outpouring of support during this difficult time and has asked for privacy as they grieve the loss of their loved one.
A Lasting Impact:
Mr. Tootie’s passing marks the end of an era at the Parris Island barbershop, but his impact will not be forgotten. His contributions to the community, the Marines, and the lives of all who knew him will continue to resonate. His kindness, work ethic, and genuine care for others serve as an inspiration to all who were lucky enough to be in his circle.
Though he may be gone, the memories of his warm smile and the sound of clippers buzzing will live on in the hearts of many, ensuring that Purnell “Mr. Tootie” Whitehead’s legacy endures for generations to come.