Four Years Without Dave: A Heartfelt Reflection on Love, Legacy, and the Power of Faith

April 10, 2025 — Yesterday marked four years since Dave’s passing, and while the pain of his absence still lingers in the hearts of his loved ones, so does the immense joy of remembering the incredible man he was. Though it’s hard to believe so much time has passed, his memory remains a vibrant and cherished part of daily life—a guiding light, a source of strength, and a symbol of steadfast love.

Dave was the kind of man who left a mark on everyone he met. His character, rooted in faith and kindness, shaped not only the lives of his family and friends but also the wider community. On that fateful day four years ago, hearts were broken. Yet, in the years since, those same hearts have continued to beat with gratitude, courage, and deep appreciation for the gift of having known him.

“I am positive that when he entered the gates of Heaven, God said, ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant,’” a loved one reflected in a moving tribute. Those words echo the sentiments of many who knew Dave—his life was a testament to grace, humility, and purpose.

A Family’s Tribute, a Community’s Embrace

Each year on April 10th, Dave’s family gathers together—not in sadness, but in celebration. They honor his legacy with love, stories, laughter, and a shared meal. This year, the day brought a unique sense of peace, an emotional warmth that only time, healing, and the presence of loved ones can bring.

“We all had supper together to celebrate Dave’s life,” the family shared. “It was one of the most peaceful days I’ve had in a while.”

These quiet, sacred traditions are what keep Dave’s spirit alive—not just in memory, but in action. Through their unity, resilience, and deep-rooted love for one another, his family continues to make him proud.

A Long-Delayed Step Toward Healing

For four years, a box sat unopened—filled with cards, letters, and keepsakes from Dave’s funeral. Yesterday, for the first time, it was finally opened.

“What a treasure that turned out to be,” his loved one wrote. “It reminded me of how wonderful Dave was and of the outpouring of love our family was shown.”

Those messages, many written in the rawest moments of grief, became a new source of comfort and reflection. They were reminders of Dave’s character, his influence, and the way he touched lives with authenticity and care.

They were also reminders of the power of community—the countless people who stepped forward to hold this family up when the weight of loss felt unbearable. “The love and prayers were what kept us going,” they said.

His Legacy Lives On

Dave may no longer walk beside his family physically, but his legacy lives in their every step. In their children’s achievements, in the wonder of two beautiful grandchildren, and in quiet moments that feel touched by his presence, he is still here.

“His gift to me has been seeing HIM in all of THEM,” his wife shared, her words woven with love and awe.

Dave’s lessons—spoken and unspoken—continue to shape the way his family lives their lives. One of those powerful lessons came from his own words:

“We have to be careful not to try to force our plans & ideas on God, but try to discover His plan for us. Not every day is bright & sunny, but either way, bright or gray, it is a GIFT to be enjoyed.”

Those words, written long before his passing, now serve as a beacon for all who were fortunate enough to know him. They are a call to faith, a reminder to trust, and an invitation to find joy even in life’s uncertainties.

Moving Forward, Guided by Love

Grief never truly ends—it just changes form. It softens, stretches, and sometimes surprises us with waves we don’t expect. But it also reminds us to cherish what matters most.

To Dave’s family, he will always be more than a memory—he is a daily influence, a silent cheerleader, a steady heartbeat in their story. And while they wish he could be here to see all they’ve accomplished, they know in their hearts that he is watching, guiding, and smiling from above.

So they carry his words, his faith, and his joy with them, living life to the fullest—just as he did.

Rest peacefully, Dave. You are missed, you are celebrated, and you are loved—always. ❤️