Shoreham-Wading River Mourns the Loss of Renowned Coach, Gilmore, Following Her Legacy of Excellence

April 24, 2025 – Shoreham, NY — The community of Shoreham-Wading River, New York, is grieving the untimely loss of Gilmore, a beloved coach and mentor who made an indelible impact on the school’s athletics, particularly its girls’ soccer program. Gilmore’s tenure as the coach of the Shoreham-Wading River girls’ soccer team was marked by remarkable achievements, including leading the team to its first-ever state championship in 2019—a victory that solidified her as one of the most respected and accomplished high school soccer coaches in the region.

A Legacy of Excellence in Coaching

Gilmore’s coaching journey at Shoreham-Wading River began in 2015 when she took over the girls’ soccer team. From the moment she stepped onto the field, it was clear that Gilmore had the vision, determination, and leadership skills to elevate the program. Under her guidance, the team experienced unprecedented success, culminating in the unforgettable victory at the 2019 state championship—a historic moment that forever changed the trajectory of the program and left a lasting legacy.

The 2019 state championship was not just a win on the scoreboard but a testament to Gilmore’s commitment to excellence. Her tactical brilliance, ability to motivate players, and emphasis on teamwork helped shape a squad that became a force to be reckoned with in high school soccer. That championship marked the pinnacle of Gilmore’s coaching career, but it was just one chapter in a long list of achievements that set her apart in the world of high school sports.

Recognition and Awards

In addition to the state championship, Gilmore’s exceptional coaching earned her the 2019 Regional High School Coach of the Year award for the Fall East Region from United Soccer Coaches—a prestigious honor that recognized her outstanding contributions to the sport. This award not only reflected her success on the field but also acknowledged her dedication to her athletes and the community.

“I was fortunate enough to be part of the team that made history with Coach Gilmore,” said Emma Harris, a former player and senior captain during the 2019 championship season. “She taught us so much more than just soccer. She taught us about perseverance, leadership, and believing in ourselves. Her impact on my life, both as a player and as a person, is something I’ll carry with me forever.”

A Coach Who Inspired Beyond the Field

What set Gilmore apart as a coach was not just her ability to win games but her unwavering commitment to her players. She was more than just a coach; she was a mentor, a confidant, and a role model. Gilmore’s approach to coaching was built on trust, respect, and the belief that every player could achieve greatness—both as an athlete and as an individual.

Her players spoke fondly of the deep connections she fostered within the team. Gilmore created an environment where athletes felt supported and empowered, and she encouraged them to develop skills that extended beyond the soccer field. Whether it was providing guidance during tough personal moments or helping a player overcome challenges on the field, Gilmore’s impact was immeasurable.

“Coach Gilmore was the heart of our team,” said Jordan Miller, a member of the 2019 state championship team. “She always believed in us, even when we didn’t believe in ourselves. She made us better players, but more importantly, she made us better people.”

A Heartfelt Loss for the Shoreham-Wading River Community

The sudden loss of Coach Gilmore has left the Shoreham-Wading River community devastated. The school, its athletes, and everyone who had the privilege of working with Gilmore are mourning the loss of a coach who changed their lives. For many, Gilmore was the embodiment of what it meant to lead with grace, determination, and compassion.

In a statement released by the school district, Shoreham-Wading River Superintendent, Dr. Robert A. Lipp, expressed the profound sense of loss felt throughout the community. “Coach Gilmore was a shining example of leadership and sportsmanship. Her dedication to her players and to the Shoreham-Wading River community was unparalleled. She leaves behind a legacy that will never be forgotten, and our hearts go out to her family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing her.”

The loss of Gilmore is particularly difficult for her players, who considered her more than just a coach. For many of them, she was a guiding light through their high school years, shaping their growth both as athletes and as individuals.

Honoring Her Memory

In the wake of Gilmore’s passing, the Shoreham-Wading River girls’ soccer team, along with the broader school community, is planning ways to honor her legacy. A memorial service is being arranged, and several tributes are expected to take place on and off the field, including the retirement of her jersey number and the creation of a scholarship in her name to support future athletes in the program.

Emma Harris, a former player, expressed her sentiment perfectly: “Coach Gilmore will never be forgotten. Her spirit will live on in every game we play, every practice we have, and in the lives of all the players she coached. She changed us all in ways we’ll never be able to fully describe. She’ll always be a part of us.”

As the community continues to grapple with the loss of Coach Gilmore, her legacy remains alive through the countless lives she touched, the victories she helped secure, and the inspiration she provided to all who had the privilege of knowing her.

Her passing is a reminder that some coaches—though often behind the scenes—have a profound and lasting impact on the lives of their players and the communities they serve. Coach Gilmore may be gone, but her legacy will never fade.